Brother Gregory

I never expected that I would become a monk, but then God often has plans for us that are unexpected.

After University I was unsure what the next stage of my life should involve. During this time of searching I went on retreat with other young adults and it was in this that the idea of becoming a monk took hold of me.

I thought about what it would mean to follow God more intimitely as a monk and the things I would have to give up and prayed about this.  I felt that this was what I was being called to and this sense of calling deepened.

I made monthly visits to a Benedictine monastery and met with the Abbot at who was able to give spiritual direction and accompany me in my journey . We met regularly to discuss all aspects of my life,  especially my sense of vocation, spiritual and prayer life.

When I entered the monastery, the first five months as a postulant were very rewarding. Postulancy was a time to let go of my previous life. There is a freedom in living by another person’s rule. The rule of Saint Benedict begins with an invitation to 'listen' - to God's word in our hearts, in community and in Scripture.

I was then accepted as a novice and was clothed in the monastic habit. The noviciate lasts for twelve months and is a time for intense prayer, discernment and entering more deeply into the community. I then took vows for three years, after which you make a lifelong commitment. After final profession some brothers then go on to be ordained as priests.

I enjoy my life in the monastery, community living and the stability of community prayer.  The point of it is to discover my true self and to deepen my relationship with God through prayer, and then put that self at the service of God and others. It’s a fulfilling life and I feel privileged to be here. l this is something you are being called to.

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